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A Tribute to a Very Special Friend


Frank O. Bomar — Incredibly missed by Both Friends and Family

I’ve been avoiding this post for far too long.  I guess I just wasn’t ready to face the awful reality of it, but now it’s time.

In your lifetime you will probably acquire many friends.  Alas, only a very select few of those friends will ever qualify as ‘really special’.  In my lifetime I’ve acquired perhaps four such friends.

In my very early teens that special friend was Geary L. Long.  In college and to this day that special friend remains David K. Williams.  As far as next-door neighbors go, that person is federal immigration judge Gary D. Burkholder who, along with his wife Kathy, now resides in San Antonio.

But early in my Air Force life and very early in my air traffic control career up until his all-too-early and very tragic death that very special friend was Frank O. Bomar of Del Rio, Texas.  Oddly coincidental, Frank originally hailed from that very same place as David — Spartanburg, South Carolina — yet I met the former while stationed in England and the latter while attending university several years earlier.  Up until my wedding to Ursula, neither knew the other nor had ever before met.

In late October of last year this energetic, vital, and active man was involved in an incredibly stupid motorcycle accident that left him almost completely paralyzed — an accident cause by an elderly woman who quite obviously had no business being behind the wheel of an automobile when she failed to yield the right-of-way and made a left turn directly in front of Frank’s 2006 Honda Goldwing.  Fortunately, Ursula and I were able to visit with him for a couple of days before he finally succumbed to his injuries on April 11 of this year.  Unfortunately, he passed before our intended trip to visit with him again over the Memorial Day weekend at the end of May.

In his professional life Frank was, well, professional.  There’s just simply no other way I can describe that side of him, and it’s very likely why we became such good friends as I, too, took the job of air traffic controller very seriously.  Yet off duty he knew how to have fun, and we enjoyed many of the same pursuits, such as cooking with a Southern flair and, at the time we first met, enjoying a good single-malt Scotch or English ale.

Frank was also incredibly devoted to his loving wife Helen, to whom I just spoke as recently as this past Saturday.  Frank met Helen in the same place I met my future wife Ursula — while we were both stationed together yet again, this time working in the control tower and PAR facility (Precision Approach Radar) at Davis-Monthan Air Force Base in Tucson, Arizona.  At the time Davis-Monthan had the distinction of being one of the busiest single-runway operations in the entire world, and after a busy day in the tower you knew that you had more than earned your miserly military paycheck.

Frank stayed in the Air Force for a career while I left for higher pay doing the same job in the Federal Aviation Administration.  We lost touch for a few years until Ursula managed to track him and Helen down for me, and we reestablished ties again shortly thereafter.  Indeed, one of our guest bedrooms is named ‘The Bomar Suite” in their honor.

So, what brought about this reminiscing and sudden desire on my part to post what I should have posted months ago?  I recently received from Helen the link below, which will present to you a video memorial produced by a friend of both Helen and Frank.  Look for both Ursula and me at the . . . well, I’ll let you see if you can spot the two of us at the appropriate video mark:

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Another Perspective on the George Zimmerman Case.


Walther PPK/S and Walther P99c AS with concealed carry holsters

I know I’m going to regret this, but I feel it’s time to weigh in the on George Zimmerman trial and offer the perspective of someone who is licensed to carry a concealed weapon, and who frequently does.  What I have to say is probably going to outrage people on both sides of this issue, but so be it.

First of all, the jury got it right.  Under Florida’s Stand Your Ground law, those six women simply had no choice but to vote Mr. Zimmerman not guilty of either murder or manslaughter.  But “not guilty” is not the same as being “innocent,” and I believe that save for an ill-advised law, Mr. Zimmerman would otherwise be in jail for exercising extremely bad judgment that resulted in the death of a fellow human being.  Indeed, Mr. Zimmerman’s decision to follow Trayvon Martin after having notified the police and while carrying a weapon run counter to not only everything I was taught in class, but also counter to Mr. Zimmerman’s training as well (as shown in court testimony).

In short, regardless of Florida law, Mr. Zimmerman in my opinion had at the very least a moral obligation to retreat after notification to the authorities was made.  Instead, he chose to exit his car which then had the effect of placing Mr. Martin in a Fight-or-Flight defense posture.  Unfortunately, Mr. Martin’s “fight” response won out over his “flight” response, and he wound up dead as a result.  Given the same circumstance — being obviously tailed at night by an unfamiliar male of unknown intent — I’m not sure what I would have done if I were unarmed.  Being armed, the decision is easy; I would attempt to retreat to safety while calling the police, and fall back on my weapon only if attack appeared imminent or the attacker progressed into my safety zone after being warned to desist in his advance.  Having a weapon allows you to equalize the odds and forego the fight response because you no longer have to consider the possible need of attacking by surprise to throw off balance your potential adversary.

Quite frankly, Stand Your Ground is a flawed legal concept that was intended to protect a citizen who rightfully defends him or herself in a public setting and outside of the protections afforded by the Castle Doctrine, which allows you to use deadly force if confronted in your place of residence.  Extending Castle Doctrine-style protections to public venues is just plain ludicrous and we now see the consequences of doing so.

This is not to say that Duty to Retreat isn’t also a flawed concept.  It is.  Anytime a defendant is required to prove in court that they are innocent (in this case, requiring proof that the defendant attempted to either escape or evade prior to resorting to deadly force), then you’ve created a situation that is rife with potential for prosecutorial abuse by overzealous district attorneys.  Indeed, Stand Your Ground was a direct result of just such abuses in the past.  Want a recent example?  You need look no further than the George Zimmerman case for validation.  Under that flawed Florida law there was no way Mr. Zimmerman could have been found guilty with the evidence available.  To be perfectly frank, even though I believe Mr. Zimmerman provoked the incident in question, I was left wondering why Judge Debra Nelson declined both motions to acquit submitted by the Zimmerman defense team.

Just how flawed was the prosecution’s case?  Enough that the evidence was never even submitted to a grand jury for review.  This is a protection afforded by the Fifth Amendment to the U.S. Constitution.  The Fifth Amendment begins, “No person shall be held to answer for a capital, or otherwise infamous crime, unless on a presentment or indictment of a Grand Jury . . . .”  Mr. Zimmerman’s case received no such scrutiny because I believe the prosecution knew or at least strongly suspected that a grand jury would return a “no bill” on the charges.  Instead, the prosecuting team brought forth their shocking lack of so-called “evidence” to a judge in a preliminary hearing in which Mr. Zimmerman’s defense team decided against mounting a defense and instead proceeding directly to trial.

Bottom line from the perspective of a concealed carry licensee?  Mr. Martin was killed by bad law at the hands of someone who has demonstrated that he had neither the temperament nor judgment to be carrying a concealed weapon in public.  Mr. Zimmerman is, in my view, the poster child for why citizens should be vetted within reasonable limits despite the guarantees of the Second Amendment.  Notice that I stressed the word reasonable.  States such as California, New Jersey, Illinois (despite their recent approval of concealed carry), Massachusetts, Maryland, and the City of New York are neither reasonable nor responsible in their limits on the basic and fundamental right of people to defend themselves.  Since both Los Angeles and Boston have very recently demonstrated that the civilian populace can and will be left to their own devices to defend themselves if a higher priority issue arises, and since the U.S. Supreme Court has on multiple occasions found that local jurisdictions have no legal requirement to protect citizens in a timely manner, anything less than fully recognizing the right to self-defense is simply unacceptable.

There simply has to be a middle ground between Stand Your Ground and a Duty to Retreat, and that middle ground needs to be codified into law in those two-dozen or so states in which Stand Your Ground is now implemented.

There simply has to be a better way.

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The Meaning of Memorial Day


Normandy American Cemetery, France

Honorably discharged veterans of the military are frequently thanked on this day for their service to their nation.  And although we are grateful for the thanks, veterans would like to remind you that Veterans Day (formerly Armistice Day and also known as Remembrance Day to our Commonwealth Cousins) is the time to celebrate military service both past and present.  Memorial Day is set aside to honor those who made the ultimate sacrifice in defense of a grateful nation.

Overlooking Omaha Beach, Normandy

Memorial Day was originally conceived as Decoration Day in the immediate wake of the Civil War, and it formally commemorated the horrendous loss of life experienced by both the Union and the Confederacy.

Statue Titled: The Spirit of American Youth Rising from the Waves Normandy American Cemetery

The true meaning of Memorial Day has been all but obscured since Congress changed the date of observance from May 30 to the last Monday in May so as to create a three-day weekend.  Now, unfortunately, it’s seen more as a quasi National Barbeque Day and the unofficial First Day of Summer.  As a result its true meaning has been obscured to many.

M4 Sherman Tank on Utah Beach

Veterans Day suffered a similar fate – moved to the fourth Monday of October – but in this case Congress acknowledged the dilution of that holiday’s true meaning and moved it back to its hard date of November 11 a few years later. Congress really ought to do the same with Memorial Day.  To me, that’s a much more solemn occasion deserving of even more respect than Veterans Day.

German Gun Emplacement Overlooking Pointe de Hoc

On April of last year I had the solemn privilege of walking through some of the battlefields of the D-Day Invasion in Normandy, France.  It was a pilgrimage I had wanted to make since I was a youngster of nine sitting in a darkened theater at an Air Force Base in Ohio watching the classic film The Longest Day.  The pictures I took that cold day in April are what you’ve been experiencing throughout this blog.

Pointe de Hoc, Normandy

Below are a few more reminders of what we commemorate on this solemn occasion.  Included in those photographs are the markers for Medal of Honor recipient Brigadier General Theodore “Ted” Roosevelt, Jr. who died just five weeks after he led the landing at Utah Beach, and his younger brother 2nd Lieutenant Quentin Roosevelt of the 95th Aero Squadron (Pursuit), who also fell on French soil just two days shy of twenty-six years earlier — during World War I.  They are two brothers separated by two World Wars reunited a quarter century later in hallowed ground in Normandy, France.

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